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Guest Blogger: Lissa Matthews
Wednesday, December 14th, 2011

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‘Tis the Season

‘Tis the season of giving. And it’s still a season of thanksgiving, as well as a season of reflection.

I have done a few things this year outside my comfort zone. I’ve learned a lot, changed a lot, and I’ve met some wonderful people this year. One of them being Delilah. She is down to Earth, open, kind, patient.

I’d started reading her cowboy stories before the Lori Foster Readers and Authors get together in June and when I had the chance to meet her, I zoomed across the room and accosted her. I told her I loved her books and that I’d love to pick her brain some time. She was gracious and offered to sit down with me at breakfast the next morning.

That kind of willing and open kindness is something I find missing a lot in this business and in life in general. I don’t understand it. Delilah let me ask questions and never made me feel like a lesser author just because I didn’t have the right publishing credentials or didn’t know the right people. There was nothing I could do for her in return for her sitting and talking with me.

She’s professional and she’s quick with a smile. Her sister, Myla Jackson, is the same way. Both of these women are incredibly successful yet don’t treat others any different for not being quite so… They gave of their time and their lessons learned. They gave of themselves and in the spirit of giving, that’s something most reserve for the holidays, but they gave it in the middle of the year. They touched me and I know they touched others. We should all strive to be less full of ourselves and willing to talk with, spend time with, and help each other. We should all strive to talk less about ourselves and our successes, and listen more.

These two authors are not the only ones like this. I’ve met others this year who are just as quick to take a moment to talk, to offer their time, to do something that may not benefit them in any way at all but to make someone else smile or feel better.

I do a lot of reflective thinking at this time of year. What could I do better, how could I be a better friend, a better author, a better mother, daughter, wife, a better all around person? I think I know and it starts with saying thank you to Delilah and Myla for showing me the kind of author/person I want to be toward others in this business.

Throughout the holiday season this year, I’ve been emailing people I’ve met in this business to thank them for their friendship, to thank them for any help they’ve given me, to tell them I miss them, that I love their books, and in some of my guest posts I am doing it, too. Just like in this one.

What about you? Have you told those that mean something to you or that have come into your life and changed you in some way, thank you?

Of course, now, I get to plug in a bit about my upcoming Samhain Publishing release, Twisted Up. It’ll be available on December 20th for purchase, however it is available for pre-order now at AmazonBarnes and Noble, and Samhain Publishing.

One rope. Three days. And two hearts on the line.

Justin has had enough. Ella, the woman who healed his broken heart, has been cancelling on him for two months straight. Sure, she’s busy with her job, which has her traveling far and wide. But that never stopped her from sharing nights of trivia, long conversations and blazing hot sex—until now. Truth to tell, he misses their easy friendship, the way her sighs fill his ear as he fills her body.

What he can’t figure out is, what’s changed?

At work, Ella finds it easy to talk to rooms full of strangers. Once back at her lonely apartment, though, she’s back to her painfully shy self—until Justin. Their chance meeting grew over the months into a year-long affair, but she can’t shake the feeling that rejection and pain are just around the corner. Best thing to do? End it now, before their intimacy digs too deep.

Suddenly he’s at her door with a length of neon-green rope and a naughty proposition, daring her to say no. Just how good could it be? There’s only one way to find out.

Product Warnings: The sheets are tangled, the hat is crumpled, and the jeans are worn low on the hips. The cowboy is hot, determined, and helpless in the face of bunny slippers. Readers may need extra batteries to get this one out of their system.

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I want to thank Delilah for having me! I wish you all a very happy holiday season.

8 comments to “Guest Blogger: Lissa Matthews”

  1. Cynthia D'Alba (aka ArkansasCyndi)
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      · December 14th, 2011 at 9:43 am · Link

    Hi Lissa! I agree with you on DD and Myla’s helpfulness. Both of them are in the dedication of my book! Both were always there for me when I needed advice, the right word, or a needed kick in the ass.

    Your book sounds wonderful. I’ll look forward to reading it.

    Happy Holiday!



  2. Delilah
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      · December 14th, 2011 at 10:43 am · Link

    Cyndi and Lissa! The check’s in the mail! :mrgreen:



  3. Cynthia D'Alba (aka ArkansasCyndi)
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      · December 14th, 2011 at 11:27 am · Link

    HA! I’ll be on the lookout for the $$$. How many zeros should I be expecting on that check?



  4. JANE SILHOUETTE
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      · December 14th, 2011 at 2:45 pm · Link

    MERRY CHRISTMAS AND MAY YOU HAVE A CONTINUATION OF ABUNDANT BLESSINGS.



  5. Cari Quinn
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      · December 14th, 2011 at 4:59 pm · Link

    Great post! Lissa, you’re exactly the sort of person that does that too. You’re always friendly and open and a complete sweetheart. So I just wanted to say I appreciate YOU!

    Happy holidays to both you and Delilah. :)



  6. tammy ramey
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      · December 14th, 2011 at 6:16 pm · Link

    thank you for the great post today.

    trvlagnt1t@yahoo.com



  7. Diane
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      · December 14th, 2011 at 8:07 pm · Link

    I enjoyed the blurb, Thank you.



  8. Shadow
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      · December 14th, 2011 at 11:21 pm · Link

    Great post! This sounds yummy! Very good indeed! I love your books Lissa. Cant wait to read this! Thanks for sharing!! ;)
    Pst..Delilah! I got the book, coffin purse, hair clip and goodies in. Thank you so much! I love them! Thank you!!!!