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Guest Blogger: Jasmine Haynes
Friday, May 18th, 2012

I decided to go a little out there, and I’ve started a “hotwifing” series. Most of you are probably asking what hotwifing is!  I had to ask the same question when a friend of mine told me that several of my Courtesans stories were about hotwifing. And here’s the explanation: it’s where the woman in the relationship steps out with other men, but her husband (or boyfriend) doesn’t have other women. Nope, it’s all one-sided in the woman’s favor. Often she’ll come home to tell hubby all about it. They’ll most likely have some really hot sex reliving her experience. Of course, the couple has to have rules, things they can and can’t do, etc. If you want a much better explanation than I’ve just given, you can read my friend’s book: Hotwifing by Cody Alston. She does a much better job of it than I just did.

I found the concept very interesting. I fell into it by accident. I was writing the Courtesans Tales (specifically Triple Play in Yours for the Night) and since the heroines in those stories are paid courtesans, I figured they were going to have to do far more kinky things than I’d written so far. But for some reason, I just couldn’t let the hero in my story have sex with another woman. See, my heroine was supposed to be his total focus, and it diminished her if he actually wanted someone else. So I decided that he enjoyed watching her with other men. Sometimes he participated, but sometimes he simply got off on her pleasure. Then they had fabulous sex afterward. Even when she was with other men, she did it for him, to give him pleasure, always thinking about what would make him hot. I had a lot of fun writing that story, and others with the same theme: the woman has more than one partner, but the man doesn’t. In a way, it could be any woman’s dream, she gets all the pleasure, but she doesn’t have to share her man. I just don’t think women are built to share, but some men are.

So now I’ve started the West Coast Hotwifing series. It’s set in the business world because I was an accountant in manufacturing for years, so that’s what I know. And boy, are there are a lot of naughty things going on at this little company I’ve created. The first story up in the series is Revenge Sex. Here, we’ve got a hotwife who can’t follow the rules. And we’ve got another woman who’d love to take her place. Who’s going to get the man in the end?! I’ve also completed the second book, Submitting to the Boss. This one’s got hotwifing and a bit of BDSM! You can read more about Revenge Sex at http://amzn.to/tQ6E4g and Submitting to the Boss at http://amzn.to/H0Cpco.

Be sure to drop by my blog, www.jasminehaynes.blogspot.com, for more excerpts. I’m also joining a new blog with a bunch of lovely slutty ladies. Starting today, May 18th, we’re going to have two weeks of great giveaways, so I hope you’ll stop by http://69shadesofsmut.wordpress.com/ to learn all about us!

10 comments to “Guest Blogger: Jasmine Haynes”

  1. Jasmine Haynes
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      · May 18th, 2012 at 10:57 am · Link

    Thanks for having me, Delilah!



  2. ELF
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      · May 18th, 2012 at 1:25 pm · Link

    Thanks for sharing (and enlightening me about the definition) and thank you also for letting us know about the new group. Good luck with the releases, they sound interesting.



  3. Jasmine Haynes
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      · May 18th, 2012 at 5:53 pm · Link

    Thanks for stopping by Elf! LOL on the definition! I’d never heard of hotwifing either, but I was writing it! And I’m glad to tell people about the new group, too! Thanks!



  4. Melissa Porter
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      · May 18th, 2012 at 7:07 pm · Link

    Never heard of hotwifing. thanks for sharing.



  5. Jen B.
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      · May 18th, 2012 at 9:18 pm · Link

    As an accountant in a former life, I say HAHAHA! Thanks!



  6. Jasmine Haynes
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      · May 18th, 2012 at 9:18 pm · Link

    It’s my pleasure to share, Melissa! And thanks for stopping by!



  7. Jasmine Haynes
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      · May 18th, 2012 at 9:20 pm · Link

    Glad I could make you laugh, Jen! Accountants are a racy bunch!



  8. Melissa Porter
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      · May 19th, 2012 at 6:20 pm · Link

    LMAO… I work in accounting… :-P



  9. Fedora
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      · May 19th, 2012 at 6:37 pm · Link

    LOL! Great to learn about your new stuff, Jasmine! Will definitely need to visit more frequently and stay au courant!



  10. Jasmine Haynes
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      · May 20th, 2012 at 8:22 am · Link

    I figured that, Melissa!

    And thank you, Fedora! I’m so glad you stopped by. And thanks for coming to the 69 Shades blog, too!