Maybe you can see it. The white fingertips on the black coffin. Those were made by one of the members of the military honor guard at my father’s funeral. The pallbearers left their boutonniere’s on top on top of the casket. The hearse is in the background. What you can’t see is the rain. This photo and the ones below are from Friday’s funeral. I’m backdating the post, because I shut down my computer for the week, which meant I didn’t blog for all those days. But now, I want to catch up and share with you what happened in my life, and what the authors who were scheduled to appear wanted to share with you over those missing days.
All my father’s children came to the funeral. As well, all the “grands” and most of the “greats” were there to see him laid to rest. Mom couldn’t have been happier about that. Or more proud of this moment…
It was a hard week. And we let many things slide because every bed was filled in our house, and every night was spent in great company, eating wonderful food provided by our extended family. On Friday night, we had a wake at the house. There was beer and wine, a guitar came out and the living room was filled with our voices. There was a lot of laughter after a week filled with many, many tears.
Had to share this photo of the 5-year-old. No gray or black for her. She wanted to wear her “graduation” dress — the dress she’ll wear when her dad graduates from the police academy in a few weeks. She was a ray of sunshine in a sea of dreary color and a lovely symbol of our hope for the future of my father’s most cherished legacy — his family.
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I’m so very sorry for your loss Delilah!
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beautiful tribute family is so important he will watch over all of you big hugs
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I’m so sorry for your loss. Hugs and prayers for you and your family. God is with you.
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My friend, you will always miss him. You will remember only the good times you had with him. You will be able to talk about him without crying and without that bottomless hole in your heart threatening to drown you. It takes time…it’s been 30 years for me, so know that it does get easier…..with time.
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I am so sorry for your loss. Prayers for you and all of your family.
Amy Fendley
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I’m so glad that your family was able to celebrate your father’s life together–he leaves such an incredible legacy in all of you!
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Thank you for sharing! Hugs and wonderful memories.
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You have my heartfelt sympathy and I love the picture of the 5-year-old. Hugs
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Thanks for all the kind words, everyone!