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Sunday, June 8th, 2025
I could use a little nudging to get stuff done, y’all. I’m enjoying the sun and the pool a little too much. I have work to do. ~DD
Report Card

Last week…
- I didn’t accomplish much of anything. I had the entire week, without any editing gigs going on, and I did zero writing.
- I did read through what I have of Ignition, the last of the Delta Fire stories, to refamiliarize myself with the story and come up with ideas about how to finish it. (BTW, I still don’t know how I’m going to finish it. 🙁 )
- I swam every day the weather cooperated. The pool is now a lovely 85 degrees. I’m not gasping when I sink beneath the surface. I’m getting my exercise in!
- Healthwise, I got a blood draw at the hospital in preparation for next Monday’s immunotherapy appointment. My cancer antigen test continues to show improvement. At my worst, the CA-125 level was at 1100. Last Thursday’s test was a lovely, normal 15.
- The #the100dayproject challenge ended for everyone else. I honestly thought about ending my participation, too, but I only have 20 pieces to go, so yesterday, I restarted, and this is what I painted. (I love using the real coffee, watercolor paint…the colors, the scent…)

This next week…
- I’ll restart work on Ignition—writing new words. Lord, I hope this is the last time I will say that.
- I’ll continue painting to complete #the100dayproject.
- I’ll hopefully have time to take pictures and reopen my Etsy shop for the summer to sell some of the bookmarks and small paintings I’ve been making!
Open Contests

Be sure to check out these posts and enter to win the prizes that are still up for grabs:
Gabbi Grey: When Life Delivers Lemons… (Contest) — This is the last day to enter! Win TWO BOXED SETS of stories!
Clear My Bookshelf Giveaway! — This one ends soon! Win a SIGNED BOOK!
- Gabbi Grey: Five Years! (Contest, plus F*R*E*E Read) — This one ends soon! Win a FREE book, and get your FREE read!
- Saturday Puzzle-Contest: Lost in Space — This one ends soon! Win an Amazon gift card!
- May Into June (Contest) — Win an Amazon gift card!
- Anna Taylor Sweringen/Michal Scott: Mary Annette Anderson Smith – First African American Woman in Phi Beta Kappa (Contest) — Win an Amazon gift card!
- Celebrate Repeat Day! (Contest) — Win an Amazon gift card!
- Gabbi Grey: The Story that Happened When I Wasn’t Looking (Contest) — Win an Amazon gift card!
- It’s Drive-in Movie Day! (Contest) — Win an Amazon gift card!
- Saturday Puzzle Contest — Morning Cup of Joe — Win an Amazon gift card!
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Friday, June 6th, 2025

Today is Drive-In Movie Day. Drive-in movies are no longer a thing. If you can find a drive-in theater, it’s a kitschy, retro thing. However, a long time ago (yes, I’m dating myself), these were very, very popular.
When I was a child, my father was an airman in the Air Force and had to work extra part-time jobs to support our family—so, not a lot of money for anything except the necessities. My mother sewed our clothes, sewed Barbie clothes (mine was the best dressed in the neighborhood!), and entertainment wasn’t something we paid for except for special occasions. We had a green station wagon to haul our family around inside. There were six of us, so we had to have the larger car.
One of my earliest memories was a trip to the drive-in. We went to see Cat Balou (released in 1965 and starring Lee Marvin and Jane Fonda). My mother popped a pillowcase of popcorn, brought drinks, and we brought sleeping bags (camping was another cheap entertainment we enjoyed). We folded down the backseat of the station wagon and rolled out the sleeping bags in case the younger kids fell asleep during the movie. We propped the speaker in Dad’s window and watched the show. I can still remember the tinny sound of that speaker, but didn’t mind. It was pure magic.
Cut away to college in the late 70s. We had a drive-in theater in our little Arkansas town, and yeah, we were still cash-strapped. I was barely in college, but had a Chevy Impala with a very roomy trunk. You paid per person rather than per car, so we loaded four or five kids into the trunk while my brother sat in the front seat with me. We had to wait until the sun went down to pop the trunk and let our passengers out. If you can imagine a bunch of teenagers, giggling like mad, farting and moaning, it was hilarious for my brother and me, but we loved going to the drive-in with friends.
The most memorable experience was when I took my sister (Elle James) to see The Texas Chainsaw Massacre at the drive-in. And now, you can imagine what happened. In the middle of the most stressful scene, where we were already sinking in our seats due to the horror on the screen, someone at the back of the drive-in revved up a chainsaw. You never saw cars fly out of a place so fast. We were right there with them, screaming and laughing. Needless to say, we missed the end of the movie.
That drive-in theater closed years ago. It couldn’t compete with the large, multi-screen theaters, and I’m sure there were fewer and fewer folks willing to endure the mosquitoes in a hot humid summer. I miss it, though. I wish there was one nearby so I could share that experience with our kids now.
So, those are my stories. For a chance to win a $5 Amazon gift card, let me know whether you’ve ever been to a drive-in movie. Share your experience. Or if you haven’t, what was your most unusual movie theater experience?
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Wednesday, June 4th, 2025

I’m posting late. My nothing day started with me waking up later than usual. Then I awoke and remembered I’d promised my brother I’d visit him, his wife, and MIL for coffee this morning. We gossiped and caught up on family news, then my dd and I walked back across the street and I remembered, “Oh yeah, I’m supposed to have a blood draw today.” So off to the hospital we went.
When I got back, it was lunchtime, and the 20-year-old made ceviche. Lord, I love ceviche. Salad on a hard corn tortilla. After that, I checked the weather and realized it was the perfect time according to the weather forecast to swim because clouds were moving in. So, the 11-year-old and I jumped into the pool.
Now, I’m finally sitting at the desk, the day already mostly gone, and I am making spaghetti and meatballs in another hour, so really, what can I hope to accomplish? Nada. Not a dang thing. I’m wondering if I should fill the next hour instead with an episode of Psych or Lost in Space…
Oh yeah, tomorrow’s my dd’s birthday, and I haven’t wrapped her gifts. So, maybe I should do that instead.
I wonder if I have adult ADHD because my brain is just jumping from one thing to the next and the last thing I want to do is sit at this computer today.
How’s your day been? Has yours been as “nothing” as mine?
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Sunday, June 1st, 2025
May
Work-related:
- I completed 4 editing projects for other authors in May!
- I found new artwork for a previously published anthology of erotic short stories, Ultra Strokes, Vol. 1. I recovered it and reuploaded it.
- I compiled my second volume of erotic short stories, Ultra Strokes, Vol. 2, and published it! It’s my first release of the year! Progress, finally!
Health-related:
- I finally went to the optometrist since I’m far enough away from chemotherapy that I don’t think my eyesight is going to further degrade any time soon. I have new glasses, and the screen is no longer blurry!
- I fought a second UTI and have completed another round of antibiotics. I feel great!
Happiness-related:
- I continued my participation in #the100dayproject. Here are a few small pieces I completed:






June
For work-related, I plan:
- To finish writing Ignition! No excuses! This will complete the Delta Fire series, my erotic firefighter stories. The pre-order will be set up this week, and the book will be out by the end of the month!
- To begin work on Built Like Mack, the next story in my We are Dead Horse series.
- To await the arrival of two editing projects around mid-month. Not having any at the moment is fine with me. Again, I have nothing to get in the way of my writing mojo, other than me.
For health-related, I plan:
- To continue to focus on recovery! Rest when I need to, and some light exercise—housework and swimming.
- To endure another immunotherapy session this month (I tolerate it so much better than chemo!) and a wellness checkup with my general practitioner.
For happiness-related, I plan:
- To spend time with the family during this summer break. We have plans for fun meals, movies, flea market shopping, and lots and lots of swimming.
- To complete #the100dayproject and create more art.
Contest
Comment on anything you’ve read in this post. Tell me what you’re doing to make yourself happier and healthier, or tell me what you plan to read in June…
Like I said, comment on anything for a chance to win a $5 Amazon gift card!
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Sunday, May 25th, 2025
Report Card

Last week…
- I completed one author’s edits. I’m currently working on another’s.
- The weather cooperated so that I got to swim four days this past week. We had a thunderstorm yesterday that knocked out our power for hours. 🙁
- I’ve continued painting and trying to catch up with #the100dayproject challenge. This was my favorite piece for the week because the paint was made with actual coffee and smells like it!
- Healthwise, I battled another UTI. I’m currently on antibiotics. It’s always something. Gah!

This next week…
- I will complete one author’s edits and then I have no more on the near horizon, so it’s time to get writing!
- I’ll begin assembling my next Ultra compilation for publication.
- I’ll restart work on Ignition—writing new words. I’m ready to get back on that treadmill. And yeah, I know I said this last week.
- I’ll continue trying to catch up with #the100dayproject schedule.
- I’ll hopefully have time to open my Etsy shop for the summer to sell some of the bookmarks and small paintings I’ve been making!
Open Contests

Be sure to check out these posts and enter to win the prizes that are still up for grabs:
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Gabbi Grey: Challenge Accepted (Contest) — Last day to enter! Win an Amazon gift card!
Flashback: Big Sky SEAL (Contest–2 Winners!) — Last day to enter! Win a FREE book!
Memory Game: Wildlife Where I Live (Contest) — This one ends soon! Win an Amazon gift card!
Saturday Puzzle-Contest: Mad about goats! — This one ends soon! Win an Amazon gift card!
Clear My Bookshelf Giveaway (Contest) — This one ends soon! Win a SIGNED book, plus a hand-painted bookmark!
- Cameron Allie: Love Spells, Full Moons, and Silver Bullets (F*R*E*E Read, Excerpt, & Contest) — Get your FREE read, plus a sticker bundle!
Word Search: Let’s Celebrate Buy a Musical Instrument Day! (Contest) — Win an Amazon gift card!
- Saturday Puzzle-Contest: Surprise Blooms! — Win an Amazon gift card!
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Saturday, May 24th, 2025
Early in the week, my pee suddenly became a bright orange-pink. Bet you haven’t read something like that as an opener on another writer’s blog, right? Anyways, I sent a urine sample via my dd to my general practitioner, and they put me on antibiotics for another UTI. So far, so good. I’m peeing yellow again. For someone who hadn’t had a UTI in years, having two in as many months is a PITA. I’ve read that’s not uncommon after a radical hysterectomy, though, so I’m not overly concerned.
School ended for the kids this past Wednesday! Woot. We celebrated with takeout and a movie. We watched A Minecraft Movie, and I guess we were in the mood for a silly one, because we all laughed ourselves silly. The 16-year-old provided a critique of how well the movie matched the actual game (she’s a gamer, and Minecraft is one she loves). If you like a childish, zany adventure movie, this one’s for you. It’s a one-timer for me, but we bought it because the 11-year-old will be watching it over and over this summer, no doubt. She already knows the songs Jack Black sang.
I’ve been busy trying to get back my stamina to complete the work I have in front of me. Editing has been going well. My personal space needs some work—straightening, cleaning. While my family pitches in, I like things to be kept in a certain order, so I’ve been trying to give myself little tasks every day to set things right.

In early April, I had my Christmas cacti placed outside on my back porch. It gets morning sunshine only, so not too much for indoor plants. Both plants surprised me with another blooming. Not as many as in late fall, but lovely just the same. The red plant buds are very sparse, but the white is giving more blooms. The picture I’m using for today’s puzzle is one of the white cactus. Have fun!
Solve the puzzle, then tell me some random things that are happening to you in your neck of the woods for a chance to win a $5 Amazon gift card!
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Sunday, May 18th, 2025
Report Card

Last week…
- I completed one author’s edits. I began another author’s edits.
- I had covers made—one for my Ultra Strokes, Vol. 1, and another for my next Ultra Strokes book.
- I received my new glasses with the new prescription, so I’m not squinting at a blurry screen anymore!
- I’ve continued painting and trying to catch up with #the100dayproject challenge. This was my favorite piece for the week.

This next week…
- I will complete one author’s edits and begin another author’s edits!
- I’ll begin assembling my next Ultra compilation for publication.
- I’ll restart work on Ignition—writing new words. I’m ready to get back on that treadmill.
- I’ll continue trying to catch up with #the100dayproject schedule.
Open Contests

Be sure to check out these posts and enter to win the prizes that are still up for grabs:
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Word Search: My Summer Binge List (Contest) — This is the last day to enter! Win an Amazon gift card!
Gabbi Powell: Finding Acceptance in Different Places (Contest) — This one ends soon! Win FREE books!
Story Cubes — Tell me a story (Contest) — This one ends soon! Win an Amazon gift card!
Saturday Puzzle-Contest: Chickens — This one ends soon! Win an Amazon gift card!
- Gabbi Grey: Challenge Accepted (Contest) — Win an Amazon gift card!
- Flashback: Big Sky SEAL (Contest–2 Winners!) — Win a FREE book!
- Memory Game: Wildlife Where I Live (Contest) — Win an Amazon gift card!
- Saturday Puzzle-Contest: Mad about goats! — Win an Amazon gift card!
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