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Thursday, December 26th, 2024
UPDATE: The winner is…Beckie!
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Christmas decorations are still up, but it’s time to make some plans for the New Year!
Is this something you like to do? Do you set resolutions? Plan to join Weight Watchers? Sign up for yoga classes at the local rec center? Set a budget to improve your finances? Maybe plan a trip or two?
Every year, always, I set plans in motion. Some goals I achieve, some I lose interest in working on by mid-January, but others, are a constant work in progress. I love the process of planning for a new year—and it always begins with my writing goals. Seeing as I abandoned writing in August due to my diagnosis, I’m a bit wary of setting goals too far in the future, and I have tons of self-doubt about whether I can ever achieve my former productivity, but I am going to set some goals anyway as something to shoot for. And I’ll go for pie-in-the-sky because I’m an optimist, and if I have to adjust later, ah well. I have to have goals and starting points to remain motivated.
So, for a chance to win a $5 Amazon gift card, solve the puzzle to keep that gray matter functioning, then tell me whether you have any goals for the new year, big or small.
Tagged: game, Motivation, planning, puzzle, word nerd, word search Posted in General, Real Life | 17 People Said | Link
Last 5 people who had something to say: Mary Preston - BN - Debra Guyette - Mary McCoy - Delilah -
Tuesday, December 24th, 2024
UPDATE: The winner is…Anna Marie!
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All my Advent calendar doors have been opened now! Aren’t they adorable? My daughter bought me a calendar when she bought the kids theirs because she knows I’m just as thrilled (well, probably more so) than they are, opening my daily windows to see what I got. Now I have all these little figurines and I’m trying to figure out what to do with them. I can’t display them because I already have soooooo many Marvel and DC figurines scattered all over my office.
I’m thinking, I might treat them like I would a daily tarot card draw. I could put them into a decorative bowl on my desktop, then close my eyes and draw one to see whose superpowers I’d assume that day. What do you think?
As well, I posted the last Advent giveaway on Facebook. The day after Christmas, we’ll have to head to the post office to get the last of the items shipped to winners. It’s been fun, and my bookshelf was denuded of a few books and my stock of bookmarks needs replenishing just in time for 2025’s #100daychallenge. Any excuse to pull out the paints and play.
Tonight is Adult’s Christmas, and the kids get to open one gift. Then we’ll be up in the wee hours of the morning to watch the kids open their Christmas gifts. It’s always fun.
But for now, I have a puzzle. Do you remember our Halloween black kitten, Binx, that I posted about after my daughter rescued her from school traffic? Well, she’s gotten a little bit bigger and is always in trouble. The 20-year-old keeps her in her garage apartment. The puzzle picture is of her getting into a bit of trouble. She nearly toppled her tree.
Solve the puzzle, then for a chance to win a $5 Amazon gift card, just pop in and share a holiday message. Spread the cheer!
Tagged: Christmas, superhero Posted in Contests!, Real Life | 26 People Said | Link
Last 5 people who had something to say: Jennifer Beyer - BN - Sara D - Kerry Jo - Mary McCoy -
Wednesday, December 18th, 2024
UPDATE: The winner is…Beth!
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Counting down the days until Christmas, trying to come up with holiday-themed posts, can be hard! I do love movies, though. I read all day long (editing, writing), and when I want a break, it’s not a book I gravitate to. I love movies. I love the full immersive experience. Lights off, volume up. After Thanksgiving, I get serious about hunting down holiday movies to watch with the family, and we’ve watched quite a few, so far: Elf, Hot Frosty, National Lampoon’s A Christmas Vacation… I know we’ve watched a couple of others, but they escape my mind.

Last night, the 15-year-old and I sat down to watch my favorite (and yes, it is a Christmas movie!), Die Hard. Get this. She’s 15—and had never seen it. When it was over, she said, “Best Christmas movie ever!” I feel so vindicated. LOL
Because there’s still time to fit a few more movies in, I’m looking for your suggestions. I listed the new film, Red One in the puzzle below, because I’m hoping to talk my family into watching another action flick with me (my favorite genre!). For a chance to win a $5 Amazon gift card, give me some more suggestions for holiday movies to watch!
Tagged: game, puzzle, word nerd, word search Posted in Contests!, Real Life | 25 People Said | Link
Last 5 people who had something to say: Courtney Kinder - Jennifer Beyer - Rachelle Lerner - Mary McCoy - Delilah -
Sunday, December 15th, 2024
Report Card

Last week…
- I worked on one author’s edits.
- I had chemo on Monday, so the rest of the week passed in a haze of aches and fatigue. I’m feeling much better today, and yesterday I only took one pain pill so I could get to sleep but didn’t need a thing to get through the day!
- My wound from my port removal is healing nicely. It no longer has to be packed—TG! That hurt like hell. Now, ripping off the tape is more painful than dealing with the incision. Progress!
- I’m still doing the daily Advent giveaway on my Facebook friends page. If you’re not there, you don’t know what fun you’re missing!

- The family watched Elf last night! Still love it!
This next week…
- The only medical appointment I have is one to get my white blood cell count booster shot tomorrow. The rest of the week is smooth sailing as I continue to recover from chemo. The second week after usually means more fatigue, but the aches die away.
- I have two sets of authors’ edits to complete this week!
- I need to upload Once Upon a Legend to sites other than Amazon since it’s no longer exclusive there.
- I do plan to putter some more around my office to clear out some more clutter—mostly to just get in some movement. My In Box seems to grow every time I turn around…
- I have Christmas presents to wrap this week. No more procrastinating!
Open Contests

Be sure to check out these posts and enter to win the prizes that are still up for grabs:
- Flashback: Brotherhood Protectors — Tyson’s Mission (Contest) — Last day to enter! Win a FREE book!
- Gabbi Grey: Trying Something Completely New (Contest) — Last day to enter! Win an Amazon gift card!
- Tonight is Krampusnacht (Krampus Night)! (Contest) — This one ends soon! Win an Amazon gift card!
- Happy St. Nicholas Day! (Contest) — This one ends soon! Win an Amazon gift card!
- Saturday Puzzle-Contest: Christmas Shopping at the Mall — This one ends soon! Win an Amazon gift card!
- Flashback: Lone Star Lovers — Reined In (Contest–3 Winners!) — Win a FREE book! THREE winners!
- Word Search: Last Minute Stocking Stuffers (Contest) — Win an Amazon gift card!
- Gabbi Powell: On Brand (Contest) — Win a SERIES of stories!
- Saturday Puzzle-Contest: Raindrops — Win an Amazon gift card!
Tagged: Christmas, Motivation, planning Posted in Cancer Journey, Contests!, Real Life | Comments Off on Report Card & Open Contests | Link
Sunday, December 8th, 2024
Report Card

Last week…
- I worked on one author’s edits! A not so productive week, but after spending a good part of the previous week in the hospital, I finally feel more myself.
- The only medical appointment I had was a quick visit with the oncologist for a checkup post hospital stay and a blood draw. The blood draw let me know that my Cancer Antigen test result was finally in normal range, which lets me know the chemo is doing its job. Yay!
- My daughter and the 15-year-old have been troopers, changing out my bandages and packing gauze into the wound (TMI?) twice a day since coming home from the hospital after my surgery to remove my port. It’s painful, yes, and now my IVs during chemo will be delivered by a vein, rather than through the much more convenient port, but I’ll be damned if they put another port in. My body didn’t like it one bit!
- I began the daily Advent giveaway on my Facebook friends page. If you’re not there, you don’t know what fun you’re missing! 🙂
- We watched National Lampoon’s Christmas Vacation—it’s an annual thing! It’s still as silly as ever.
This next week…
- Chemo is tomorrow! I’ll be there bright and early in the morning and sitting in the chair until around 3 PM. It’s a long day, but they start it off with a bag of Benedryl, so I get a long nap, too. Silver linings, folks!
- Although I’ll be pretty miserable all week long, I have two sets of edits for other authors to work on, one to finish. I’ll piddle five pages here, five pages there between naps and get ‘er done.
- I do plan to putter around my office a little bit during the week to clear out some more clutter—mostly to just get in some movement, if not real exercise. My In Box is beyond the teetering phase, and there’s still dust on my bookshelves…
Open Contests

Be sure to check out these posts and enter to win the prizes that are still up for grabs:
Anna Taylor Sweringen/Michal Scott: Alice Ruth Moore Dunbar Nelson — More Than a Famous Poet’s Wife (Contest) — Last day to enter! Win an Amazon gift card!
Gabbi Grey: Audio Love (Contest) — Last day to enter! Win a FREE audio book!
Saturday Puzzle-Contest: Advent begins tomorrow! — This one ends soon! Win an Amazon gift card!
- November into December (Contest) — This one ends soon! Win an Amazon gift card!
- Word Search: Things on My Christmas Tree + Open Contests! (Contest) — This one ends soon! Win an Amazon gift card!
- Flashback: Brotherhood Protectors — Tyson’s Mission (Contest) — This one ends soon! Win a FREE book!
- Gabbi Grey: Trying Something Completely New (Contest) — Win an Amazon gift card!
- Tonight is Krampusnacht (Krampus Night)! (Contest) — Win an Amazon gift card!
- Happy St. Nicholas Day! (Contest) — Win an Amazon gift card!
- Saturday Puzzle-Contest: Christmas Shopping at the Mall — Win an Amazon gift card!
Tagged: Motivation, planning Posted in Cancer Journey, Contests!, Real Life | Comments Off on Report Card & Open Contests | Link
Saturday, November 30th, 2024
UPDATE: The winner is…Charlene!
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Yes, Thanksgiving is barely over, and I’m already looking toward Christmas! Thanksgiving was lovely here. The daughter outdid herself so far as the meal was concerned. We’re eating the last of the leftovers today. Tonight, we’re eating Haluski because we can’t face another day of “buzzard” leftovers. Don’t know what Haluski is? It’s so simple—egg noodles, fried cabbage, and kielbasa sausage all mixed together. We add some Frank’s sauce to spice it up. Yum! Simple, but filling. Then we’re watching a Christmas movie, probably Jack Black’s Dear Santa.
Every day, counting down from the 1st to the 24th of December, I’ll give away a small prize on my Friends page on Facebook. If you aren’t already a friend, you can head over here to join: Delilah’s Friend Page. You can also join Delilah’s Corner group and post your entries there. When you comment on my daily FB advent posts, you’ll be entered to receive a small, simple prize, whether it’s a signed book, a hand-painted (by me!) bookmark, or a pretty beaded pen.
Let me know if you plan to follow the daily giveaways for a chance to win a $5 Amazon gift card here! Enjoy the puzzle!
A quick note: I’m healing well from my surgery to remove my chemo port. My daughter has to change out my bandages, including packing the chest wound (it is as gross as it sounds) twice daily. Other than that little bit of discomfort (PAIN!), we’re going about business as usual. I see the oncologist again next Monday to see when chemo resumes.
Tagged: Advent, Christmas, game, holiday, jigsaw, puzzle Posted in Cancer Journey, Contests!, Real Life | 25 People Said | Link
Last 5 people who had something to say: flchen - Dana Zamora - Kathleen Bylsma - Delilah - Charlene Whitehouse -
Thursday, November 28th, 2024

My family sprung me from the hospital yesterday, so I’m home for the holiday!
In case you didn’t know, my chemo port area was infected. My body rejected that contraption. So, I have a hole in my chest that my poor dd has to pack with gauze twice a day as it heals. Painful, yes, and it’s impeding my chemo—which will resume in two weeks. But I’m home for the holiday. Yay!
The hospital wasn’t bad. The staff was kind, and they gave me a lovely, large private room (I guess my insurance is pretty damn good—thank you, U.S. Army!) while they ran me through surgery to remove the port and took care of the wound for the first couple of days. The food? Ugh. My dd made the trek daily to spend hours with me. The 15-year-old spent quite a bit of time with me to keep me company. I couldn’t access my website to do any updates, though, because the hospital’s internet kept slapping a “porn” warning on all my accounts. I went in Sunday and came out yesterday afternoon, so you know I was dying to get home to read my email.
Anyway, I’m back. I hope you’re all doing well. My dd is in the kitchen as I’m writing this, preparing the turkey for the oven. My SIL made his “famous” deviled eggs last night. Three pies are in the fridge. Everything else will be made fresh today. Yum! We’ll eat too much, take breaks to nap and watch something family-friendly, I’m sure, then back at the feast. Tomorrow, we’ll all be complaining we gained five pounds.
I love the start of the holiday season! I wish all of you here in the U.S. a lovely holiday, filled with too much food and pleasant memories to be made.
Tagged: holiday, Thanksgiving Posted in General, Real Life | 10 People Said | Link
Last 5 people who had something to say: Kathy - Mary Almeida - Colleen C. - Diane Sallans - flchen -
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